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You are not alone in all of your struggles.


IThis is dedicated to those women who feel alone. Sometimes, life may seem very rough or incomplete, you may have gone through disturbing or life-threatening situations, this post is just to remind you that you are not alone in all of your struggles.

Have you recently been diagnosed with a life-threatening disease? Have you been subjected to pain and torment? You are welcome to the circle of women, you are not alone.

TO THE WOMAN RECOVERING FROM DIVORCE, all hope may seem lost, the world may stare, family and friends may have mocked or turned their backs on you, you are not alone. It is not an easy process, but it is always worthwhile. Look at the positive aspects – you may just find that extraordinary guy you have always wanted or be initiated to that passionate love that was only possible in your imaginations. Hang on, you are not alone.

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Drop a thought


Day 4 of the A-Z challenge. My theme is centered around ‘THE WOMAN’. It encompasses the sexuality, love, relationship, abusive, and wicked nature of a woman. A-Z on the different angles of a woman.

DThe title of this post reminds me of a movie I saw about 10 years ago. Fortunately, it’s not the same movie but unfortunately, it’s worse than the movie. It is an entry sent in from one of the wives.

I was so happy today  was going to be the best day of my life, I had dreamt about today a million times and had played every beat and music in my head. I had seen so many visions of my

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Story by a member of the wivesrepublic.

It is a difficult situation.

I have been feeling frustrated and at a loss for a while now. My husband and I have only been married a little over 18months. I was drawn to my husband because he seemed such a chilled out, patient & positive person. We hung out a lot and I never got the vibe that he had a temper., and it felt awesome to be entering into my first proper relationship.

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Prayer is the way in which we communicate with God.

I have experienced a huge positive impact in my marriage because of prayer. Whether my husband and I have faced good times or really difficult trials, prayer has brought us closer together to each other and closer to God. And when we were extremely broken, ready to give up all together, God heard our prayers and He saved us! He saved our marriage!

Prayer is beautiful. Just having intimate access to talk to God and knowing He desires to hear from us is pretty incredible. Then as we specifically pray for marriage, it aligns our hearts with His will. To go even further, when we pray with our spouse, they get to hear what we say which is usually a glimpse into the depths of our hearts. In all the years my husband and I have prayed together I can attest that it is remarkably affirming. Continue reading “CHALLENGE- 31 DAYS PRAYER FOR MARRIAGE”


Dear me,

I am writing this letter to remind you of the ‘whys’ and priorities in your life. you have always been responsible for your success and the success of those around you. As a married partner, your marriage is very important to you. It must be protected at all cost. It is sacred to you. Cherish it, water it, build it into a castle, put all your effort into it and relax and enjoy the outcome. You know you can do it, all you need to do is to sit and focus on the now. The things of the past are already gone, the things of the future will come, what you have is NOW, make it worth living for.

Remember, procrastination is like a grave that must be buried, it has caused you a lot of bad waves in your relationship, avoid PROCRASTINATION, do it now. Of course, it is difficult, start scheduling your activities and most importantly, put all your thoughts in writing. With goals in mind, the most logical thing is to write it down. Glass houses are built first from a thrust in the soil. Continue reading “A LETTER TO ME”



To be a wife or husband or in a relationship and making an oath to do so, means to stay side by side while traveling through life together. It is only difficult to be separated or swept away when two people are agreed that life is only life – to me it means marriage is only marriage – when two are agreed to go through life side by side.

It is beautiful to see two birds flying side by side, and it is easier to row with two people in a boat than just one. Embrace your marriage as a beautiful thing. Embrace the truth that two people are better than going through life alone.

Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up! Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone? And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken. – Ecc. 4:9-12

Are you in agreement with your spouse?

10906171_1029020960447375_2061271603530413669_nHave a lovely sunday.

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